Hi Uphill, I'm pleased to read about this development. I would agree that you don't need to make any sudden moves or big decisions. Instead of her talking about 'coming home' I wonder whether you might both think about testing the water for yourselves by 'dating' for a few months without making any big decisions? Or you could just consider doing a few things as a family and rebuilding a friendship.
I don't think the decision needs to be as big as 'come home or not' at this point - it could be as small as 'have coffee together next week' if you want it to be.
Take care and good luck with things xx
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