Thorn, I have to admit, I'm not nearly as excited as I thought I would have been to hear those words. 6 months ago, I would have been jumping up and down with joy. Running out and finding any box I could get my hands on and trying to move this along. Now it's kinda like whatever... I do still care for her. I do think she's a very attractive girl. I see her in a different light now after all the hurt I've dealt with.

I think my best move at this point is sleep on it for a few days and continue doing what I'm doing. Let this all sink in before making any move at all.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home