That is good advice, thank you trumpet. I do feel like I'm in a horrible tornado.
I turned my calls to call forwading. If anyone calls I'll get a you have a missed call from x number but I can have the phone on, text, call people back it just makes it seem like it is off.
I will turn off call forwarding when he goes into work around 6. Take a 3 hour mini break to relax with no one bothering me.