Red - no way I could have gone out in public the first week after finding out about the affair. And, you have it harder because you have two young children. Mine were at school all day while I fell apart. Take it hour by hour. And, you are right, dating is not a good idea right now. It would be settling and you are too good to settle for something out of neediness or revenge. Glad you got a nap! Keep taking care of you!

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16