Thank you. You did share this insight with me once before. Oh yes, I did a lot reading on the MLC subject. I think he is in MLC. Currently, his best friend is a 23 year old bar back and his wardrobe consists of many Abercrombie and Fitch items. I mean that's just two small elements (and I've gone over some of the other more overt symptoms before in previous posts .... Alien for sure!) He's been trying to fill himself up with stuff and things for years!
I just can't see him coming out of it and wanting to come back. He's the kind of guy to just move on to something different.... He never looks back and never tries again. This I know with certainty. If he did want to come back into a marriage with me... It would be the first do-over in his entire life. He cuts people and things out all the time and never flinches. He also is proud of the fact that he doesn't have sentiment in his life.
With that, I question if I was part of his MLC, too. I mean we have a huge age difference. I never felt it.... But could I have been part of the crisis, too? I'm his second wife. He dumped his first one, too.
Anyway, he is emotionally stunted and I wonder if that's why we were able to relate (because I'm so much younger and met him at 21). I loved him with all my heart... But I think i was also blind to a couple things.
Just a lot of unknowns and I'm feeling like I want more out of life. This has been a long journey and I'm ready to get off the ride. Ok, I'm off the ride, but I'm still watching it go round and round from a distance.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
