What an awful lot to take in. And hold in. Stress can really do a lot of damage to your body and mind. I, too, have lost a lot of hair...its curly enough to not be noticeable, but I really see it!
What are you doing now to combat this? It is combat...a war on stress and stressors. I've heard about meditation, yoga, heavy exercise being used. My doc told me to take care of my gut...REAL Greek yogurt with fat at least once a day (smoothies or mix it into milk when eating cereal) It will help with a lot of the physical effects of stress. Especially the hit to our immune systems.
I hope you are feeling better soon. PMA is important. Sounds like you worry a lot about H and his problems...I do too. But you have to let him take his own journey while you focus on you. Its hard, but it took my own daughter telling me she missed ME, the strong mom she could go to when she needed me, for me to realize how much my R problem itself was ruining my life. I had to mentally let H go...detach...to start to feel better. Not giving up on R, just taking a break from focusing on that which I can't control.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16