One more thing for further clarification! Had the assistant called me within 4-5 hours after I left, or texted me that they had indeed gotten the old password working - NONE of this would have happened!
Whether it was from embarrassment I don't know. I'm thinking it was more just because she didn't care. And, didn't have an epiphany that "oh yeah, if he changes the password...!". Nor did she say anything to the IT guy apparently - who would have mentioned something.
I really think that the vitriol and hate my wife is expressing towards me to the assistant (who at least until a month and a half ago was somewhat of a friend) is rubbing off, and she's doing what she can to pitch barbs as well. This was just one that apparently will backfire.
Could I let her know? If I did, they'd realize they'd forgotten that I'm still on all of their accounts. That would be STUPID for me, because at least right now I can learn her strategies. Since it's being shared with me, I'm not going to give that up. At some point when the W logs onto her account(s) and sees my picture there with the "Sharing With" it will all be over. Until then I'm using it to my advantage, and I'm not going to tip my hand.
So, I have to pretend I never saw the IT completed task form.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)