Thanks Betsey! I love new guy a lot, and am determined to do whatever work it takes to truly continue to choose love every day. Of course, I loved ex a lot too, but always felt and accepted that I loved him more than he loved me, and was expected to make more sacrifices. I even learned he was somewhat of a philanderer, six months after the wedding, and that he has been horribly depressed for over 20 years, but never suspected he was bat sh!t crazy. Maybe he wasn't smile

Thanks Rick. And, um, I just sort of invited a bunch of people to your house for Independence Day. smile sorry

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17