I guess the real question we have to ask ourselves moving forward is do we want that person in our lives. My stitch is at least a bit easier to walk away. We weren't technically married (didn't have the money yet to do it the way we really wanted) and aside from 4 fur babies, no kids.
As I told my best friend from highschool; I'm pissed and hurt and reevaluating whether I even want him anymore but I also want more than anything for him to ask to come home 😔. And every day is that roller coaster. I get sick to my stomach thinking about packing the last of his things up but I don't know how I can move forward with him acting like he is. NC and living with the OW, probably having the time of his life without any of his home responsibilities. Why would he want to come back.


M:26 H:32 T:8yrs
ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16
D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16
Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW
I moved to different state: 06/16
Currently: Trying to move forward