Oh yeah, one more thing to be super clear - if I could have logged into my account to begin with, I could have given her the password right then and there. Or more specifically, tell her that her name was working - and not have to change anything at all. This all would have been avoided.
She waited 10 days to start all this up again, after I offered the last time. I have dozens of text messages going over this same thing.
(I wish there were an edit mode here!)
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)