Back again 8 years later

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Well the last week was pretty much event free. She seemed to be the same great gal that I married. No talk of moving out although I am realistic about that. She has been seeking me out to just casually discuss our days and such. Last night we had a few beers and watch game shows all night talking and laughing with her seeking eye contact with me the whole time. It's very easy to assume all is on the mend but I know better. I know that R talk is a no-no. But I hate not knowing her plans if or not she is going to move out. She stated she was at last talk, like she had a plan of action but I have heard no more. Do I bring it up or let it ride.

She has been seeing a counselor since November and I wonder if this jackass might be doing more harm than good. I just hope that she can take all advice and make her own decision. We had pretty traumatic event happen with one of our nephews a while back, and as we were talking I went up and told her "I have to do something. This is overdue" I gave her a hug. She said thank you. I'm trying to make amends for trying to understand her better and acting accordingly. I hope she is softening a bit. Probably just a climb on the roller coaster. Hopefully there is not a huge drop.