I Think it's Way Too Late

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[color:#6600CC]In my view you are clearly playing a game. It appears to me this is passive aggressive behaviour. Doing something you know will cause damage.V

Hi Vanilla, I'm sorry - I tried to be really clear I had no idea that this was going to cause any problems at all for her (them) when I did it.

As I mentioned, after having to go to the next town, shell out $700 for 2 months of the W's phone bill to get my account back I returned 2 hours later to do exactly what I promised I would do.

I spent half an hour (more really - it took forever to get a human) with the service provider getting into my account. None of the information they required was available to me, save for my email account.

Once I was finally into my account - I then changed her password as she requested (if you would call it a "request") and sent the password to her via text message.

It wasn't until afterwards I began to wonder why I hadn't heard from her for several hours. I even looked at my phone to see the last nasty phone message.

I started thinking that this meant she got her account working again, and never let me know it was working. So, I checked my old office email, and sure enough I saw that around this time IT finished installing a new PC. The IT guy was smart enough to know what "...also try your name, upper and lower case" meant.

She didn't want the password to get to her webmail as she said, but to give IT to set up her system. Had I known this - I would GLADLY not have spent half an hour in a near panic thinking I had been locked out of my account and gotten the information they needed so things would have been much easier.

So all I meant was after all of this, I really don't feel too bad that when she comes in on Monday, she'll realize what happened. I call it Karma. She's got the password, she'll just have to get IT back in to change her account settings. I am NOT going to walk her through the process over the phone as I have so many times in the past.

I apologize for calling them 2 psychotic b*!s, but I was pretty upset and still am at this constant screwing. The W could easily have said she was pulling her phone and devices off the account. In fact, I had planned to do the same, only I would have paid her for my portion of the bill.
Since I was suddenly locked out of my account online, I could only find that I owned $700, making me think all the phones were still on the account, and somehow she had not paid the bill.

See, I keep thinking the best of the W. I simply cannot believe the W is doing things so petty, so miserable and here I am trying to help. Then I get a "who, moi?" text. Like I said, I'm done. I'm angry and hurt. I'm not going to do anything that will look bad in the eyes of the court - which is probably why the L hasn't made any moves and are letting things play out.

I want my house. I want my dog. I'd love to work things out with the W, but between her and especially her assistant (whether operating on her orders or her playing out her own feelings about her divorce) I don't know if I can stand any more. I still need some things in the house I forgot last time after all the harassment, but it's just not worth it. How many times do you grab the hot pot until you figure out it's not a good idea?

I've got a Diary that's already 3 pages long, and it only started 2/11.