Mine said to a mutual friend that the reason we were having problems is because he was with someone who was in a psych hospital and I didn't approve.
Don't listen to any of it. They're just saying what makes them sleep better at night. And some day, they'll have to face the music, that they betrayed the one person who promised to always be there. That's a heavy thing to have to live with. They've got to use some sort of defense mechanism until it really sinks in.


M:26 H:32 T:8yrs
ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16
D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16
Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW
I moved to different state: 06/16
Currently: Trying to move forward