JujuB your last two posts and Rouky your last post are exactly where I am in my marriage. My wife would divorce me today if it wasn't for the haircut she'll take financially and she has said so. You are not alone JujuB. I am working on myself and planning my life without her. I hope each day she reconsiders her path. With each passing day I fear she feels she has has made it worse and there's no turning back. Your not alone JujuB, sadly your surrounded by many just like you. Be strong