I was feeling very sympathetic to your sitch until I spotted some things that I consider to be passive aggressive behaviours and some descriptives that are very unpleasant to me. Labeling and overt abuse.
--------------------------------------- Dealing with 2 psychotic B*tches doesn't make it any easier, believe me. Should I push it so they say "that's it" and not grant me access any longer? Are they trying to push me to see if I react a certain way to use it against me? I don't know. I do know the W is playing for keeps. All I can say is I wasn't too bothered having an overweight out of shape B* chasing me up and down the stairs as I'd go "oopsy!" and run back up. Then down. Then up...
I really consider this way of thinking to be unhelpful to you and who you are. Aren't you better than this?
Labelling, name calling and black and white thinking. This really wont help you, if this is your affect then it will be clear to your WW.
------------------------------------- Don't worry, I'm really not playing a game - I did exactly what she asked. Had I not been paying attention, I wouldn't know anything else. I still get the report tickets still from the W's office (IT department) to my old email address, so I know they reconfigured a brand new PC because they asked how the service was.
In my view you are clearly playing a game. It appears to me this is passive aggressive behaviour. Doing something you know will cause damage.
When my WH started this with me, I locked him out as he wiped ipads and iphones by locking me out of the family account. By doing that which you have done you have given WW much ammunition she can use against you to lock you out. Not good, vengeful and counter productive.
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There is much justification for what I think is your own passive aggressive behaviour and attitude in your posts. I am saying that to be helpful because with every act you are causing yourself too much damage. When you are in a hole stop digging.
Take the higher ground it is the better stance.
I think you have much work to do.
Time to start working on you and making some 180s on this is my thinking.
Regards
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
