I agree with Rd Sandi, I have found your posts and answers to questions insightful and can take much from them. Thank you for your continued support to this board.
I had been looking back trying to find something, I think it has been mentioned in several places that a WW can wait till the last moment of a 'deadline' before turning on a big sob story as a test of whether her H will cave into it. I have a week before my W is due to move to her apartment but find some of her actions around the house to be strange. For example, we have wood floors and they get oiled occasionally, I told her I would do it when she has gone and some of the things are gone as it will be easier but she is dong it this morning. It's almost like she is cleaning like she is planning to stay... I could be entirely wrong of course but just wondering what I might expect if she was to take this to the 'deadline'.
I have continued like you suggested awhile back of removing myself as much as possible from her and am doing my GAL activities without explaining myself. I have also had her family contact me in the past week, something they haven't been doing for a couple of months.
I'm expecting this week to get stranger by the day and will keep moving forward with my own things.