OK, no bashing here either. You know that calling her was the wrong decision. You know that this can't continue. Calling the Samaritans - well, if you felt you needed that, then that's fine, but don't let this moment define the rest of your life.
At her age, going to a nightclub is a passing fad. The appeal of being out until 3/4 in the morning will soon grow poor. At the moment she feels alive, fresh, not oppressed by G (unfortunately your call simply reaffirmed that she needs to get out), but it will pass. One day she will wake up and realise what she's losing. I think it's in the DB book about people packing love away in a box and then one day finding it again and unpacking it.
Being out of the situation is the only way to go. Your W will only know what she is losing, if it is lost. Do you see what I'm saying?
We're looking out for you Ghost, but the spinning has got to stop and it's time for Ghost to put his foot down and start being a man again.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
