I'm sorry Ghost...and no bashing from me - just hugs (((()))

When you see her, just let her know that you've decided you need to separate and you'll start looking for your own place. Apologise briefly for calling her so late. Let her know that you don't wish the marriage to end, but you respect her choice if she does.

Then start looking to get yourself fixed up with a place. Also, Google DRW in your area to see if you can get involved in a local group.

Sorry not to post more my friend, I'm dashing off now - but I'm sure others will be along soon. Hang on in there - you will get to the other side of this I promise.

Take care ((((()))))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus