Painter, Don't worry, I'm really not playing a game - I did exactly what she asked. Had I not been paying attention, I wouldn't know anything else. I still get the report tickets still from the W's office (IT department) to my old email address, so I know they reconfigured a brand new PC because they asked how the service was.
When I was at the house the assistant was literally screaming at me to change her password. Even left nasty phone messages. She even was holding access to the house hostage - or any future access.
I said I couldn't log into my account to change her password, which I had given her. I haven't logged in for months and months, and my current password doesn't seem to be working.
They're so aggressive, so crazy that she never listened to what I told her - which was your password is your name. Did you try upper case? Lower case? Upper and lower case? This gal is literally screaming at me asking why the admin doesn't know HER password! And trying to explain why I don't memorize everybody's password for every single thing was met with more arguing.
So, as I'm being followed around the house I said I would change it, but it would take a while as I had to go sort out my phone bill that the W screwed up.
So when I got back I changed her password per her "orders", and did it right when I said I would - or at least within the window of time.
What is going to happen is she'll go in on Monday, and find the email doesn't work because I did what she asked. No games, and I can completely justify everything I did - because I have about a dozen texts to prove it.
It was totally crappy of her to NOT call me and say she had gotten it working. Had she done that, I wouldn't have had to spend half an hour with tech support - at least yesterday. I suspected they had gotten it working though - otherwise I would have kept getting phone calls "when are you going to change my password?" instead of sudden radio silence.
And calling the domain/email provider was a PIA. When calling them - because I was locked out of my house and have nothing - they ask you 2 questions. What is the CC# you have on file (I don't have any of my credit cards), and what is your PIN number (I don't have any of my files in the file cabinet). I looked through my email and couldn't find it either. What was scary was even my email wasn't working trying to log on - I seriously thought I might have been hacked.
Anyway, had she called me after I left the house and gone to the next town to get my cell phone sorted out and just TOLD ME that she had figured out her password (thank you!), everything would be fine.
Like I said, I didn't find this stuff out until after I went through all this trouble, and all of a sudden a bunch of things clicked. So I looked at my other email account (I'm trying to disconnect so I am avoiding it) and saw what they had done. I knew there was a new PC, I just didn't know if it was for the W or for her.
So now they have 2 brand new PC's not being used - but the W is so twisted with hate and revulsion and rebelliousness that she won't use the ones I set up for them. All they had to do was wipe the drive if they wanted me off as admin. I even gave her the Windows DVD with the serial number on it.
So again, no judge will be upset I did what I was asked. And, that's why I let her follow me all around the house writing down what I was grabbing. I still forgot a lot of things, because she won't shut up, and I start getting flustered. The only time I wasted was doing what was asked of me. I'm sorry I did that much.
So at least I get the satisfaction of knowing that on Monday, she'll walk in and realize that when it says "enter password" that I did what she asked! She won't know how to change the account details until somebody from IT comes back in to do it for her. In the meantime, my now working cell phone will be getting used talking to my L!
Seriously, how many guys have to deal with a WW and a proxy WW at the same time?
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)