Rednail: OW confirmed..going dark

[broke]

I agree with Trumpet. Time for him to be a father. He wanted this, so now he gets it. No more multiple texts. If it is urgent respond. Otherwise, politely tell him that you are confident that he can take of your children without you micromanaging the process. And, you need to set a boundary about him calling you during unreasonable hours. Don't tell him you are doing that - just stop responding to texts in the middle of the night unless it is an emergency.

Now, I want you to leave the bathroom, go out to your mom and tell her that you just need her to hug you and hold you. To let you cry in her arms and tell you everything will be okay. Tell her what you need - she doesn't know. I promise she is trying, but she doesn't know what to do or say so she is just floundering. Tell her so you both get what you need. She wants to be there for you - I promise.