I Think it's Way Too Late

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Hi Sandi, I did feel pretty abused - especially having somebody following me taking notes as to what I was taking. This is one of the things that makes me think the W has lost it - or is so completely consumed by hate that she thinks I'm taking things I'm not supposed to.

At this point I don't want to pitch too much of a fit. I want to be able to get access to the home, and am hoping that this sort of behavior is going to make it look like the W is not to be trusted. There's a lot of money on the line here.

Dealing with 2 psychotic B*tches doesn't make it any easier, believe me. Should I push it so they say "that's it" and not grant me access any longer? Are they trying to push me to see if I react a certain way to use it against me? I don't know. I do know the W is playing for keeps. All I can say is I wasn't too bothered having an overweight out of shape B* chasing me up and down the stairs as I'd go "oopsy!" and run back up. Then down. Then up...

An example of what they're claiming (incorrectly) In the W's notes regarding assets, she said that she couldn't estimate many things regarding our 2015 taxes and expenditures, because I had taken all of the files.

The files are in the file cabinet. Before the BD I had even asked her to look at them, because she was in denial about her spending and asked me to pull everything together for the taxes. If you open the file cabinet, you'll see things like "Discover H, Discover W, Citi Visa, Capital One" just like a normal filing system. Also, on top of the file cabinet so she would see it was a folder that said "2015 Taxes", and that's where I was putting all the year-end statements. I wanted her to see it because this is the time of year we get that stuff.

Just like she had asked for the camera. I said to both her and the assistant, look in the office closet. In there is a cheap ikea cabinet with a glass door. The camera is inside with the memory cards, lenses, flashes and batteries.

Believe it or not, neither one of them could be bothered to either look, or were incapable of following simple instructions. The time before last the assistant asked again where is the camera - and I showed her as my temper was getting very, very short at this point.

The only thing I've removed from the house is my clothes, my PC (she's got several), one of my cameras (I have clients and need to keep the business going), equipment given to me by manufacturers for evaluation and review (W has no clue), and some files for our rentals since I'm still acting as the property manager.

But yeah, I'm done done done with helping them. Especially after yesterday when I found the W pulled her phone off of the account along with her devices, but left me holding her bill. She's the realtor who is on the phone 24/7. $700 or 2 months.

I did however do one last thing the assistant asked. That is change her password. Why would I do something nice, something she asked for?

Because - it's going to mess her up on Monday. They weren't being forthcoming on why it was needed. I know it was because they had an IT guy come in and set up her email on a new PC using the old password - and never told me that they got it working. No surprise. It was life and death and phone calls and harassment to change the password and give it to her. Then radio silence.

So, I followed instructions and changed it 3 hours later which is how long I said it would be. The assistant won't know how to get in and change the account to the new password.

tsk tsk.

Oh, and I have a conference with the L on Monday to go over this stuff. as an awful lot has happened in the last 2 weeks.