Glad to hear you're able to almost fully detach and be so calm when you do run into H. I would be so annoyed or rather am annoyed when I head about H hanging with "our" friends without me.
Also, I'm interested in hearing what you guys think about what I wrote in my last thread about my struggle trying to experience and acknowledge my H's perspective. Has anyone else ever come across these feelings? How do you deal with them? Did you overcome them?
"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."
