Job, Legally this is his home too, which is why I have tried to play nice and not file for a legal separation. Unfortunately, if the stupidity continues I may have to go forward and just do the paperwork. I can't really afford to hire an attorney. I looked on line to see if I could do it myself but I don't understand all of the legal terminology and I dare not ask my son for help because I don't want him in the middle of this.