Job, thank you for your opinion. It is soooooo frustrating to get snapped at when you haven't done anything wrong and had no intention of doing so.
I hadn't really thought of it in terms of me "invading" his fantasy, but now I have this image in my mind. I see h entertaining some skank in some fashion and right in the middle of playing out his fantasy, boom, my innocent, legitimate business need pops the bubble. Reality hits him smack up side the head. I know this may sound mean, but it kind of makes me smile and I hope it ruined the evening.
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013