We did family C to help "D" get through. Even with my H's work hours he never missed a session in 8 months. TX revolved around "D" but C spent a few minutes each session with H and I to see how we were handling everything. I bring this up because even though H was always there he rarely talked when he and I were in without D. Usually only when asked a direct question and then usually only a yes/no response. His "job" was cheerleader. "D" you can do this, "D" you are going to be ok. I on the other hand was... "D" scream, yell, yes...THIS SUCKS, let it out.
So, "D" and I let it out and H kept everything in. Maybe thats why D is doing great, and H and I are having problems being together. I'll suggest to H maybe he should see C alone. FYI: I wouldn't wish my last 1 1/2 years on my worst enemy. I now know what Hell is.....watching your child suffer. Nothing, and I mean nothing can be any worse than that. Go hug your kids!!!
