Thank you guys. My next step for ad ice which I KNOW will be a HUGE fight is the house.

He said he would never be the type of man yo bring a girl into our bed, with our kids, in our house. I fully 100% believe my daughter is not lying. Before I was confused but even though he still denies I do not believe him.

How do I tell him I'm staying home and he can take the kids and deal with it.

I was thinking of saying next time he wants them okay d&s will be packed and ready with car seats to be taken to your parents to spent the night at 3 pm or you can come here but I'm no longer leaving anymore nights.

He will fight me..say I'm unfair etc and I know he is moving to his friends far away and wouldnt be able to keep them there and wanted to come here..sleep here..keep them here..but no.

If he is with her..I do not want him sleeping and sharing my bed.

I do not know if his parents want the kids over there everytime and will think I am making his life miserable. So I let him get off the hook and only hangout until bed time and leave ( I feel like he would do this) and never keep them overnight if I will not leave?

What do I do..do I leave so my kids get to see him and hope she isnt at my house them and do 2 am drive bys everytime just incase?

Help. This is my newest stress.

I slept for a few hour nap in bed with both my babies. I needed it.


Me:24 H:26
T:7yrs M:4yrs
S:4 D:5
ILYBNILWY 12/5
PA Confirmed 2/19