So...here's me flip-flopping and showing my logical disconnect.
Today I had another session with my codependency therapist. Basically, its necessary for me (and all of us) to recognize that my WW isn't a bad/evil person necessarily. And, the way I would display that in relation to your post is to say, "our WW's do value relationships". I think its important for us to be completely honest. My WW would not have done what she did if she wasn't hurting and seeking love and value for herself. And, she has the right to want and get those things. I certainly disagree very strongly with the way she gone about making that happen for herself, but I am starting to see that she is only doing what she believes to be the best thing for her.
Now, this hurts like a mother to admit. It hurts even more to admit that my actions and inactions have contributed to her behavior. But, again, its the truth.
^^^^Who is this guy talking? And why can't I get him to be around 100% of the time and replace that other guy?^^^^
I hope you have a good day today Thornton. You deserve happiness to my friend. *e-bro-fistbump*
Me:41 - LBH in apt W:39 - WW in home Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42 M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15 (PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)
