Just a quick post. I keep feeling the urge to want to tell my WW what I found about her affair. (Her list of pros and cons.)
I'm not sure why. I decided originally to not tell her because I read here that it was best not to. And also, I feel like it may be an 'ace in the hole' that could help me prove her intentions with regards to our marriage and help out representing myself legally if necessary.
But, I just hate the fact that she has been able to just lie to me. I don't know. I'm 'not acting' right now...coming here to get a level headed perspective.
I suppose...if I'm being critically honest...part of also hopes that she would be exposed...feel incredibly great shame...and then...you know...love me again.
^^^SICK^^^ But...it is the truth. And, I'm sure that based strictly on the above I should not talk to her at all.
In a month, maybe?
Oh B...let go of this miserable woman.
I actually had a thought earlier...I thought...if I let her go...if I let her no longer have any power over me...she wouldn't be able to make me feel like this. Then I dismissed that thought. But I had it! That's how normal people feel...right?
Anyway...thanks for any responses.
Me:41 - LBH in apt W:39 - WW in home Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42 M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15 (PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)
