Thanks for the background, Katie. I have to leave in about 20 minutes, so I don't have the time to deal with this in depth as it deserves. Anyone else want to chime in? I guess the obvious suggestion is that he could benefit from counseling, but he sure works his butt off...when is he going to fit that in?

3 times in 8 months is bad. You're in the right place, though. Some people here have had it worse, some better.

I won't be on the board until Monday, so I hope you get some good responses between now and then.

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