JujuB, I don't know that it would be considered a DB policy. It is usually more of an opinion, from various board members, about dating. As with a lot of other advice, it comes through having a clearer head, being detached from this particular poster's situation, observation of other cases, or from personal experience.
I have seen some cases when the WW couldn't make up her mind, saying she just didn't feel attracted to the H, etc. Then, low & behold, if someone started noticing the LBH, or if he started dating.......it certainly helped the WW decide if she was attracted or not. One case in point was Puppy Dog Tails. Btw, they were separated at the time.
I have also seen cases where dating led to complications in reconciling. So, it is definitely a serious consideration. Plus, I think this is an issue where the LBH finds himself on the road with his WW. If that makes sense.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
