Hello, my sweet friend. I am so sorry this has happened.
I want you to hear this...This has nothing to do with your worth, your ability to give her what she thinks she needs or anything else. It is about her being really and truly broken. That is not an excuse. It is just part of the explanation.
I know you will go round and round in your head about stuff. Try your best not to let this spin you too much. She isnt capable of anything right now. She is still in 'desperate to feel better mode."
But I dont care about her right now, I care about you. This was a journey you were meant to go on. It happened exactly as it was supposed to.
So, protect yourself and your son financially and mentally. That is what is important right now. Try really hard not to get ahead of yourself.
Many people become very angry and bitter when this happens. Please don't let that happen to you.
She remains the mother of your child. Unfortunately, you have to be the parent right now. She isnt capable fully.
I know you are very angry and hurt. I promise you wont always feel as you do now.
This next part is really important, Luke. How you handle it, what you take from it, all matters.
Remember all that you have learned. Do not allow her to take anything more from you. You have become an amazing man. One with strength, courage and honor. That's all yours.
I am here for you if you need me...you know how to find me.
