I would have to give her space. She needs to know that I am doing what she wants/needs. After I move out she will want me to be a good father to the kids. She says that she just wants to be happy in life but doesn't intend to meet anyone else, although her history makes me doubt that comment.
In the past when we separated, she said I wooed her. Also though, my interest in pursuing someone else scared her and she suddenly wanted to save our marriage.
My aim is exactly that, to build a friendship with a view to either stopping the divorce or re-marrying in the future. I hope that if we can be open and honest with each other as friends, then things could develop. I'm not sure if she wants to hear that although I mentioned it in a text that she didn't answer.
In the book it says not to pursue or need reassurances, but I feel if we set some guidelines to possibly working things out, this would be the only way forward. I just don't know how to move forward without a plan.
I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?
