I am now in a predicament where my w is constantly pressuring me to leave the house or she will and take the kids with her. I have explained that I am waiting for a job offer within the next week or two and then I will have certainty for the future. She will not accept or hear what I am saying and is the only thing she wants to talk about. She yelled at me that we could not be friends because I will not do what she needs me to. I hardly recognize thee woman I was married to.

I know that when she gets her way she will calm down and be civil again.

She also keeps sending me online articles about where we went wrong in the marriage. She even says that we moved to quickly to get married and never got to really know each other as friends first. I replied that we can develop a friendship and see if goes further and if not we have a good relationship to help us bring up the children. I just feel that I get mixed messages amongst her determination to divorce me and move on.

How can I approach this? I have read the DR over and over but do not find anything specific to my situation.


I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?