Red, I'm so glad your mom is coming over. We're here for you too, for as long as you need. I folded the clothes, too, and it made no difference either way. Shred them all if you want to. It's going to hurt like nothing else for a while. I'm so sorry, but it just does. Try to avoid any contact, even about the kids and bills. And most importantly don't tell everyone. It makes the A more real and it makes it harder for him to come back if everyone hates him. Then all they have is each other. You don't want that.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
