Hi Suzy, I started off by saying the door for reconciliation(sp) is still open but,we need boundaries.....Saturday Itold my H that 5 months of limbo is enough.I know against DB rules. I said you can no longer run in and out of here with a key, wash clothes here, Be here when I am not, and when you spend time with S, you need to do it wherever you are staying and not here.Why should he have his freedom and all of the comforts of home also? He even gets to ML. What is he missing?He can't not reside elsewhere and have his family also.I also told him that I do not love you because you don't make mistakes.I love you in spite os yyour mistakes.He is very self righteous when it come to me making mistakes.. He always says he wants to move on w/his life, but yet and still is always here. I just got fed up! His response was let's see a lawyer and D. I said make the decision that is best for your family.
I feel like he has emotionally detatched from me, but I am still attached to him.I need him to not be around so that I can detatch.
