CWOL I think ^^^ this is spot on. That Vap character is crazy, ;-), but the above is a great post.
Right after BD for me, I was on a different forum for a bit. They were suggesting pursuing as well. It just didn't feel right for me. I did try a little a bit and all it did was push her further away (like I knew it would). Not only did it push her away, but it made be feel like crap. Then I found this forum and the thoughts here more or less aligned with my thinking and my experience which was great. My number one worry at the moment is myself, WW is down on that list.
