And then what? He is so messed up at this point and I know that I can't fix him. You're gong SUPER SLOW because that's your H's pace. If your H was ready to jump back in, how would you have proceeded after the affair was ended? Of course all this is hypothetical because as far as I know my H is still having an A and I have no idea if he would want me back anyway. Nor do I know if I would want him back. I would, however, like to have a plan in case it ever comes up that way I will know what to do and how to respond. Not something I would want to be blindsided with as it didn't work out well for me last time.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it