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But I have only been doing it for a few hours. Can't learn it all in that time.

Tyler, I am very disappointed by this! Are you telling me that you have been studying Italian for a few HOURS and you don't have it mastered yet? ! LOL. I think it's great that you're putting the effort into learning another language. I don't think my mind works quite that way. I can remember taking 2 years of Spanish in high school. Apparently, I needed SEVERAL more years of classes because I only remember how to count, tell you my name, ask what time it is, ask for water, and tell you that I don't speak Spanish. Pretty sure my Spanish teacher would be highly disappointed in my ability to recall what he tried so hard to teach the class.

I'm sorry that your W is acting the way she is. I wonder if she had plans for this weekend and maybe she was hoping that if she asked, you'd change your mind and take the boys for the weekend so she wouldn't have to cancel her plans. Just seems odd after you guys had already talked about it.

I would have had a very hard time trying to stay calm while she was asking you "how did you blow the all the loan" and then deflecting your question by changing the subject to child support. I mean, this woman is cheating on you and fired you as her H. She then moved out and stole your money to pay her own rent! When you ask her about YOUR money, she then tells you that you're badgering her. Is she kidding?! This is absurd. She then follows it up by deflecting your question and questions you about child support that you guys agreed wouldn't be paid because you're splitting the time. I understand that you don't have the boys 50% of the time yet because of school, but that will be over in the next couple of weeks. She is really some piece of work! Then her idea of 50% is to have to boys every week while she would be working, and you take them every single weekend so you can be her babysitter while she goes and does what she wants without having to be bothered by kids. UGH!

I would just try REALLY hard to be nice while talking to her while not letting her run all over you. What was your origional agreement? Were you wanting to have them every weekend while she has them during the week? Make sure you figure out exactly what you want and are willing to do BEFORE getting into that conversation with her otherwise it's going to be harder when you're trying to make the decisions right on the spot. And, I'd probably get the answers out of her bout repaying the $$ she owes you first, BEFORE getting into a discussion about kids and child support. Did you guys already set a time when you're going to talk about things? I hope it goes well for you. Let us know what happens.