Please, if you need to explode in many different directions because your heart aches at this moment, please do it here.
We are all here to give you some support and let you know that it is not the end. It's not coincidence that you came to this board. There is a lot of good people that will help you to get through this.
Honey, life goes around and around. Forgiveness is hard work, but it happen. We are all humans and we all make mistakes.
I know you may have a lot of anger and hate right now, but do not lose your focus. Like I said, you can spin here and then you will have a clear mind to take whatever decision you need to take.
Scam bags are everywhere sweetie and it's out of your control. What is in your control right now is you and your kiddos.
The first days are hard but they are also the days you start working on your strenght.
Take the time to put all your ideas in order. As much as you can, do not open your mouth to spill your plans with your L. Keep your cards close to your heart.
Have your phone always charged and close to you. Have the ones that can help you on a speed dial, just in case.
You are hurt now, but things will settle and many times the sitch changes. Pay attention to your and your kids security. I mean physically and financially.
Remember: Believe none what they say and half what they do.
Be patient with yourself and your sitch. Go NC so you don't drive yourself crazy. If it is necessary go to an IC, it helps big time.
Eat, drink plenty of water and sleep what you can. Do not get sick or weak. You need your energy and you need to think straight.
I really would like to hear from you, do when you have a chance let us know how you doing. Now the work really starts.
