Letting go, finally

[JGuy]

Interesting. You might be right JujuB. No dating for me, just a crush that I am keeping contained and being honest with my W about. It feels good to have 100% transparency. If the crush persists and starts to feel more dangerous then I may need to distance myself from this OW if I'm serious about saving my M. Even if I wanted to give up on a M, rebounding right away with someone else would be a bad way to start the next R. So either way I need to contain this. I'm hoping she can become a good friend and the crush will pass.