Rednail: OW confirmed..going dark

[Ggrass]

What pink said.

I kept engaging til,there was an ow, then I confronted h which h denied and bailed (once I confimed he'd been diddling us both at the same time) once the evidence came piling out.

Once I had proof then to me he had made his choice, loud and clear. With all the high drama of the last year and no even branch of friendship offered I decided I wasn't plan b and wasn't even a featured friend out of respect. He hasn't acted in a conciliatory way or even offered any solutions to finish the settlement. More of same from him.

If I had a chance of happiness and a better r else where then I needed to move on.
That part they talk of in db, is true you do get to decide and often it takes some time an some truth to come out before you can make a definite decision.