Help!

[CWOL]

I have gone through and read dozens of threads and hundreds of posts on this forum. Unfortunately, reading them really made me sad. The percentage of successful recovery of marriage is very low. Most of the posters' signature end with "Divorce Final XX/YY/ZZ." It makes me doubt the Detachment process.

I understand the need to move on, but I'm wondering if the cost of moving on is the end of marriage?

Now of course, the people who come on this forum are like me, with marriages were already declared "over" by the WS. So it may be a case of bias in the sample data selection. But still, they do not give me much hope.