The anger expressed by W is unreal at times. She texted me asking again if I was taking the boys this weekend, we had decided no as I need to focus on the upcoming week of school. That was all fine. Then I brought up her paying me back the money she owes, it is quite probable that it was bad timing on my part and she lost it. Saying I am badgering her and how did I blow all the loan I got already. Then coming at me about not getting child support yet, when we were doing the separation agreement she brought up support which she said she didn't want if we were splitting time 50/50. As I am in school i can't have them 50/50. She said she wanted x amount unless I was going to take the boys every weekend. And i have and paid support too. When I said this she replies with saying that amount of time isn't even 60% wow your a real f'in winner.
I was really hurt by that and very very close to getting drawn into the fight. I replied when she has time lets know and we can talk and figure it all out
I am not going to starve or die if she doesn't pay me back. That's not the point. I have covered all the bills and she helped herself to my mortgage payment to cover her rent. She can't live in a world where I am going to cover her butt while she acts like a teen.
She thinks I am being an jerk about this. The problem is she thinks everything is all happy and good when in reality the money makes it a business transaction.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.