Advice from my L, don't do anything to him or her that could incriminate you. Get tasted for STD as it's the first thing I did! At the moment nothing we can say or do will close the void that you are feeling under your feet.
Breath, cuddles with kids & eat what makes you happy!
So what she is gorgeous! Of course she is as she no longer has a H, so she needs to be attractive, so do you. Put a nice dress on or something that makes you feel good and pretty. No stretch mark? Who are you kidding? She obviously hasn't got everything going for her if after your description of her, she went for your H and not someone else!
