Recap of my last thread and today: found out my wah is dating and sleeping with my ex best friend.
He already has texted me to ask if the kids nap after 2 hours of not seeing me. I have no desire to respond,see, talk to him.
He said he will not stop seeing her.
He also says he might love her.
I'm going dark.
He was sleeping with us both at the same time..disgusting.
I will not respond to anything stupid such as if the kids napped. I will respond to if he wants to see the kids, when I have bills due,and when I need money.
I really do not want to ask him for money but he will prob be very stubborn and wait for me to ask.
My L said while he is still paying for everything just wait..for now until I get a job and figure out my living situation.
Right now I have no desire to ever take him back. I have no desire but to make his life hell with the divorce.
I am trying to stay calm but I'm very hurt.
Any advice is welcomed because if I knew I wouldn't go to jail I would go wreck his new sports car.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Keep asking, Rednail. Is there someone else? The other night I didn't want to be alone for dinner and I had to contact about a dozen different friends before I found someone. Family perhaps?
Do not make any hasty decisions, and stay away from that car.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Yeah, I've never had any luck getting anyone to stay the night. At least she can stay with you for a while. That will help.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Advice from my L, don't do anything to him or her that could incriminate you. Get tasted for STD as it's the first thing I did! At the moment nothing we can say or do will close the void that you are feeling under your feet.
Breath, cuddles with kids & eat what makes you happy!
So what she is gorgeous! Of course she is as she no longer has a H, so she needs to be attractive, so do you. Put a nice dress on or something that makes you feel good and pretty. No stretch mark? Who are you kidding? She obviously hasn't got everything going for her if after your description of her, she went for your H and not someone else!
