Rouky, thank you. It's funny you said that about husband DBing himself. He is naturally good at that...he consumes himself with work and friends, never pursues, and never initiates. Limbo is hard, because I don't have answers or direction and therefore my moods are all over the place. Do I have hope or do I resort to anger so perhaps I can convince myself this is for the best. Villify him so rejection hurts less? Am I villifying or was I right that he was unfair? Am I better off? I just don't know how to feel anymore. I never did.
Mutatio, that sentence describes me to the t. I have always had anxiety. That is probably why I am here. DB coach once said to me, something like positivity begets positivity and fear will drain me.
Grlonfr: I guess I have no choice and have to accept that I will be fine regardless. During our meeting, I am just going to let him lead. I will try to smile and be friendly. I am going to mostly listen and Definatly not voice my complaints. I will reread Some of the offered validation statements.
