Help!!! What's Next?

[AnitaSues]

Yeah, great minds think alike! Just last night I've decided to do the same thing. I'm setting boundaries, well writng them and bringing them to c session. But I think that's good, give yourself every other weekend. It was weird I was thinking about telling ex h to take d every other weekend as well. I really think it will be good for you. Good for you!!This will help him as well.

[nitaf]

Anita, did you read the letter that I posted on my thread?

[debcb]

hey, nitaf, just wondered what's up and how things are going today?

[nitaf]

H took S to B-Ball practice yesterday. I ahd a tennis lesson so he waited at our home for me. I got there at 9:30.HE left at about 10:00. Then he comes back at about 12:00. we ML. I said I wasn't going to do it anymore. I am a glut for punishment. He doesn't even spend the night. This is so hard for me. I want my M to work out.........

[nitaf]

H took S to B-Ball practice yesterday. I ahd a tennis lesson so he waited at our home for me. I got there at 9:30.HE left at about 10:00. Then he comes back at about 12:00. we ML. I said I wasn't going to do it anymore. I am a glut for punishment. He doesn't even spend the night. This is so hard for me. I want my M to work out.........

[nitaf]

H took S to B-Ball practice yesterday. I ahd a tennis lesson so he waited at our home for me. I got there at 9:30.HE left at about 10:00. Then he comes back at about 12:00. we ML. I said I wasn't going to do it anymore. I am a glut for punishment. He doesn't even spend the night. This is so hard for me. I want my M to work out.........

[nitaf]

H took S to B-Ball practice yesterday. I ahd a tennis lesson so he waited at our home for me. I got there at 9:30.HE left at about 10:00. Then he comes back at about 12:00. we ML. I said I wasn't going to do it anymore. I am a glut for punishment. He doesn't even spend the night. This is so hard for me. I want my M to work out.........

[alaskangal]

Men connect through making love. More than they like to admit. Don't stop!

Do set some boundaries. Do it on your time, not his. Do it only when you feel like it, and only do what your comfortable doing.

Begin asking him for what you want in that arena. Be bold and brazen but not needy.

Surprise him by stopping by his place for a quicky and then leaving. Turn the tables.


Good luck.

Do it, but do it right! LOL

Hugs and prayers,
Akgal

[nitaf]

Thanks AKGAL. I am so happy that things are going good for you.

[nitaf]

Yesterday, he touched my face really soft when we were getting ready to . He tried not to look in my eyes but I gently turned his head toward me so we could make some eye contact and he did smile.