Rednail 3.0- Is there OW now?!

[Painter]

I have no idea what to do right now.

I am so very, very sorry. That is horrible, such a betrayal from both. But your gut feeling was right on.

Do nothing. Just breathe, talk to the L about your options and still do nothing. There is no rush.

I agree with not answering non-essential questions about the kids. Scheduling and serious illness is all you need to communicate at this time.

(((hugs)))

And see a doc to check for STDs. It was the first thing I did.