So glad you updated! I had to laugh at the Paul Simon visual. Just imagining you in your living room with a guitar and singing this ballad to your sons... I might need Ginger's narcotics...
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I have decided that the DB Process only goes so far towards healing us and making us whole -- there are some triggers and flaws within us that won't come up until we are in a new relationship.
I totally agree. The only way you can heal what's really there is to live in it.
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It is so awesome to have someone who understands and is willing to help work all this stuff out.
That's what commitment means. I'm so glad you and your guy have this foundation. It's super important, and you may have to agree to disagree at times, but if you're respectful and care, it sure goes a long way, doesn't it?
Of course, I'm biased. I happen to like both of you a whole lot. Since it's about me, I want you to stay together.
And it goes without saying that I'm so very glad you don't have to be in the middle of your XH's insanity. He sure has dug himself a most bizarre hole. I don't think I've ever heard a story as strange as his. Do you wonder when you talk to him if you ever had anything in common?
Hugs and love to you. Miss you!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
