Since D-Day she's been trying to make *me* the bad guy. I've been doing my best, being helpful and doing all the tasks she wanted me to do before D-Day, like doing the laundry and all the dishes, etc. She's almost stopped cooking entirely and I've been buying meals for the three of us to eat. Whenever I do nice things, her comment was, "It just reminds me of the things you never did before."
Those things are her excuses she fed you and being her maid will not attract her back to you. In fact, if you have a WW, you will not be able to please her, so why not do what works?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
